Dating. It’s a minefield of bad dates, hopeful almosts, armchair experts, and inner turmoil.

One minute you feel confident you know exactly what you want, the next you’re questioning if you’re too picky to ever find someone, wondering if you should have given more of a chance to the sweet guy who kissed like a fish.

One minute you’re coming home from a date, dancing around your living room convinced you found the one, the next you’re calling all your friends dissecting the 3 word text he sent after not hearing from him for a week and a h...

We are jumping right back into our conversation from last week's Valentine's Day episode where I'm sharing my most hard-earned lessons from 3.5 years of singlehood and over 200 dates! If you didn't catch the first episode, click here to take a listen!

8. Relationships are not meant to make you comfortable all the time. They're meant to expose the unhealed parts of you that still need tending while holding space for you to work through those parts. And that's hard. 

I do not have better words than this quote from Return to Love:

"God's i

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Summary 

 Raise your hand if...

• You hate being single. 
• Online dating feels like a slog. 
• You're getting pessimistic about whether or not you'll find someone.
• You loath the thought of going on another first date.
• You're anxious about finding your partner. 
• You find yourself repeating unhealthy patterns in your relationships. 

Over the past 2.5 years I have felt almost all of these at one point or another. 

Until my friend invited me to a private speakeasy event that was hosted by none other than Laura Patricia Martin...