It was the first week of November, 2003. I was 11 years old and had my stash of Halloween candy stuffed into the corner of my closet.
I was old enough that my mom didn't throw part of it away or moderate my intake, so I did what a lot of kids would do at one of their first chances at unlimited candy... I ate it. All of it.
Each night after dinner when everyone had gone to bed, I would pull out the giant bag, put it on my bed, and eat while watching Nick at Night.
This was the first time I ever abused food. I ate it in secret, felt unable to say no to the draw of the sweet treats lurking in my closet, and felt ashamed at my lack of willpower.
At the time I of course was utterly unaware of the myriad of ways that food affects our body. So I didn't make the connection when my forehead became covered in tiny bumps after a week of eating handfuls of candy each night.
Looking back now, I know that was the beginning. The beginning of my sugar and carb addiction, the beginning of my toxic relationship with food, the beginning of my candida overgrowth, my leaky gut, my hypothyroidism, my hashimotos, all of it.
So when a podcast listener reached out asking if sugar really is as bad as everyone makes it out to be, my knee jerk reaction is a resounding yes.
But I try not to let my emotions or my own baggage overtake the advice I give or the opinions I share. So today we're talking about how sugar actually affects our body and brain, and how to maintain a healthy relationship with it through challenging holidays like Halloween.
Sugar's Affect on Our Body
"We know [sugar] impacts your vanity: weight gain, belly fat, breakouts, skin irritation, wrinkles, aging skin, tooth decay, and hair loss.... Eating sugar has been linked to: inflammation, migraine headaches, anxiety, brain fog, trouble sleeping, weakened eyesight, gum disease, heart disease, increased cholesterol, asthma, suppressed immunity, kidney damage, nonalcoholic fatty liver, overworked pancreas, arthritis, osteoporosis, metabolic syndrome, and leptin resistance... sugar increases the risk of developing certain cancers... and of course, glucose intolerance and diabetes." -Breaking Up with Sugar
Sugar's Affect on Our Psyche
Is it Better to Eliminate or Moderate?
Truth be told, this is a decision you have to come to on your own or with the 1:1 support of a coach like me.
Some people need to treat sugar like the addiction it is and cut it out the same way an alcoholic would cut alcohol out. Cold turkey, no cheating, no moderation.
For others, that approach only sets them up to have a worse relationship with sugar and leads them to cycles of restriction and bingeing. In which case you may do better allowing yourself a square of dark chocolate or a spoonful of ice cream each night.
How Much is Too Much?
"Sugar intake per capita in the UK has more than doubled since 1950 and with that, the obesity rate has quadrupled." -Breaking Up with Sugar
So with sugar being added to everything and with these processed foods being engineered to override your hunger/fullness cues, you may be interested in having a specific measurement to keep your sugar intake in check.
The general recommendation is no more than 100 calories (6 tsp or 24 grams) of added sugar per day (so no, you don't have to count the sugar found in fruits, veggies, or whole grains).
How to Moderate During Holidays Like Halloween?
Moderation is a multifaceted skill when it comes to food and it starts with your mindset. I've worked with many clients who approach moderation like this: I'll eat super clean all week, and then on the weekends I can eat whatever I want.
That is not moderation, that still falls under the category of restriction and bingeing.
Instead, remove the limitations around what days you're allowed to have sugar, and simply come to the agreement with yourself that if you want sugar you can have it, but it has to be the proper portion size (i.e. around 100 calories).
In the context of Halloween, don't set Halloween as a day to go full-fuck-it after which you'll "be good" again. Halloween is just another day, where maybe instead of eating a cookie out of your pantry, you'll have a small handful of candy corn or a kids bag of skittles.
And if you do go a little overboard, practice BAMO: Breathe, Accept that you went overboard, and Move On immediately (as opposed to beating yourself up and further spiraling).
Remember, one day of debauchery won't kill you or destroy your results, but if you spiral because of the debauchery and say fuck it for the rest of the holiday season, that's a different story.
Finally remember that moderation isn't only about mindset, it's about physically setting yourself up to be able to moderate: never let yourself get starving, eat a diet of 90% whole foods, and intentionally develop coping skills that have nothing to do with food (getting better sleep, meditation, breathing, calling a friend, exercising, reading, singing, and removing negativity from your life as much as possible).
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